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Rebecca Holden's avatar

So beautiful, Nicci. I'm not a parent, and this post made my heart beat a little differently. Thank you so much for sharing this story. ♥️

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Nicci Kadilak's avatar

Aw, thank you so much. 🥹

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

😘

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Robin Taylor (he/him)'s avatar

Not sure if anyone else enjoyed listening to your reading of this, but I certainly did. I do love reading things myself, but sometimes hearing an author's voice connects me in a different way, and that felt even more significant with your words here. I don't know how you felt doing all the talking, but it was great to listen to.

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Nicci Kadilak's avatar

Thanks so much, I felt ok! I’ve done a lot of video and voice stuff lately and that’s helped my confidence and taught me how to deal with screwups. ☺️ this one felt important to speak into the world.

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J.E. Petersen's avatar

It's amazing how trivial everything seems when you come face to face with a little kid's earnestness. I spent twenty minutes earlier today playing hide and seek with my 18-month-old daughter (which concluded, unfortunately, with me accidentally scaring her to tears, and then having to pick her up and spend five minutes calming her down -- she's a resilient crier). At one point near the beginning of our game, I remember thinking, "How important, really, are all those other THINGS I'm not doing right now?"

It's no contest. By comparison, none of it matters at all.

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Nicci Kadilak's avatar

None of it. I wish it were easier to remember that.

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J.E. Petersen's avatar

As long as the kids are around, you've got frequent free reminders! And then, I guess fingers crossed for grandkids twenty years from now.

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Nicci Kadilak's avatar

😂😂😂

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Bethany Bell's avatar

I so appreciate and resonate with these sentiments. Leave it to the children to remind us what this is all about. ❤️

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Nicci Kadilak's avatar

They are ever so good at distilling the important things down to the drop. 💖

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Amran Gowani's avatar

Very resonant, Nicci. Beautiful piece, and a good reminder to be happy for the little things, which are actually the big things.

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Nicci Kadilak's avatar

Thank you! ☺️

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Bethany Bell & Kara Wood's avatar

What a special little guy & a great daily reminder to take a breath and smile. 💛

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Nicci Kadilak's avatar

I need it so often! Thanks for reading!

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Marmi's avatar

This is so beautiful, it made me a little choked up!

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Nicci Kadilak's avatar

Thank you so much! Had to wipe away tears more than once. 😭😍

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

I love this. Children have an amazing ability just by their presence to constantly remind us what really matters

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Nicci Kadilak's avatar

So true. I hope the world never robs him of this.

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Nicci Kadilak's avatar

💖💖💖😊😊😊

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